Having “the talk” with your parents about moving to an assisted living facility will be emotionally challenging. For our older loved ones, there’s no better place to grow old than in the comfort of their own home. But when their needs move beyond our capacity to help them, moving a parent to an assisted living community might be the wiser decision.
Here are helpful ways to mentally and emotionally prepare your senior parent to transition to assisted living.
Tackling the Emotional Obstacles of Moving a Parent to Assisted Living
Lay out the reasons why this is the best decision for them
Talk about the issue head-on and be straightforward while respecting and empathizing with them. Discuss why living in an assisted living facility is in your older parent’s best interest. Make sure they feel included in the decision-making process. Try to encourage them and give them multiple options in finding the best community that meets their needs. Also, be prepared to have numerous conversations because it won’t be a one-and-done conversation.
Be patient and give them time to adjust
During the talk, make sure to validate their feelings and emotions. If they’re upset, let them be upset and let them know that you acknowledge what they’re feeling. Be patient, and don’t interrupt while they’re processing and digesting. If they express any concern, help them understand by thoughtfully answering their questions. For example, express your understanding when they resist the move, and then explain your side and the benefits of living in an assisted living facility.
Always keep in touch after the move
It’s important to show support before, during, and after moving your parent to the assisted living facility. Transitioning to assisted living can leave seniors feeling lonely and abandoned. Showing up in person, or even through phone or video calls, will make all the difference in making them feel loved and connected. Remember that you don’t have to go through it alone as well. Encourage other friends and family to stay in touch with your older parent and give them their contact information. Make a collective effort as a family to be present in your loved one’s life.
Work closely with your older parent’s caregivers
Collaborate with their caregivers or social workers to ensure your parent receives the best possible care. Communicate with the staff about any concerns, or let them know how they can help make the transition easier for your older parent.
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