Change can be challenging. Think back to when you experienced a significant change in your life and felt anxious about it. Seniors might feel the same way when moving to assisted living. These feelings might cause some resistance to this lifestyle change. However, understanding these feelings can help as you try to ease the transition for your senior parent.
4 Common Reasons Seniors Resist Moving to Assisted Living
1. Worries About Losing Independence
Making the move to assisted living can be a significant change, especially for those who have enjoyed their independence for so long. It’s completely normal to worry about losing that freedom. They’ve spent decades overseeing all aspects of their lives. Older people might worry that the structure of assisted living might limit their choices. It is important to recognize these feelings and help your parent work through them.
2. Emotional Attachment
People become emotionally attached to their homes. These feelings can be even stronger if they’ve lived there for many years and raised a family there. It can be hard to say goodbye, and it may even feel like losing a piece of your identity. These feelings are natural, and you should respect them. However, you may need to explain why the move benefits your parent. It may also be true that the home is not fit for the needs of an aging person.
A survey from October 2024 revealed that 69% of baby boomers want to age in the comfort of their homes. However, those considering moving to a senior community recognized several benefits. For example, 71% rated food quality as very important. That shows that high-quality dining is critical for ensuring a good living experience.
3. Affordability
Finances become a significant concern when thinking of assisted living. Many seniors believe they can’t afford the financial requirements and might have issues. They worry about their finances and that it could be a burden or disturbance to their family. Costs may be more affordable than many people expect. However, families should work on long-term care planning and learn how to pay for care.
4. Fear of The Unknown
Concerns about the future are natural parts of the human experience. With age, moving to a new place, meeting new faces, and getting used to a different routine can be daunting. That may result in a little understandable anxiety for a senior. Take the time to learn about their concerns and offer support. Let them know they are not alone and that you’ll be there to help them adjust. Taking them to tour senior living communities can also help them overcome these concerns.
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